The Sound of Sunshine is Coming Down

So I Learned Something

This week. And I know that I normally don’t make posts but this week has been super eventful and I thought I’d share it with the Internet World.

So this week there have been three separate incidences in my group of friends that are all the same thing, just in different ways. Basically, its just that people in my group of friends have issues with things that other people are doing, but instead of telling them to their faces, it comes out in snide comments that eventually snowball into blowup fights. (Not to say that my hands are clean this week at all)

I’ve learned this week that it is almost impossible not to have an opinion on people’s decisions. And whether or not you keep these opnions to yourself, or tell a large group of people and get your ass in trouble, their impossible to avoid. I think with friendships its best to be honest about how you feel, which is how I’ve always felt. But this week I’ve also learned that its good to let people make their own choices and mistakes, and then let them realize that it is a mistake without you meddling. and if you need to tell someone something because you’re bursting at the seems with how juicy the secret is or how strongly you feel about it, write it down on a paper and throw it away.

or blog about it.

because it’s much easier than explaining to a hurt friend why you talked about them behind their back, even if your intentions weren’t malicious, but merely to voice your opinion to another, to see if they have the same.